2012 We're finishing these past 3 weeks in a fog of coughing kids, interrupted sleep all through the night, humidifiers, nebulizer for asthma, medicine, spit ups, and a tad of fever here and there. That's not including multiple doctor visits with one late night ER visit for Aila. Both T and Aila have had a horrible cough, and have been quite sick for what feels like an eternity. And this was after I recovered from a flu that put me in bed for 4 days (usually, I function somewhat even when sick, but I was totally out). Deep thanks to Gran Marie and Nanny Sarah for really picking up when neither Dav nor I could. So, wrapping up 2012 and moving on to a new year is quite welcome.
My mom was born in the year of the snake. However, she has a very strong phobia and dislike of snakes, related to the passing of her younger sister which is a story for another time. I grew up knowing that my mom didn't like snakes for deeply personal reasons, but I never felt a discomfort myself. As I grew older, I even found myself touching and being curious about snakes, then finding myself quite fine with snakes. Later, I realized I actually had a snake around me when Dav and I got married on the playa (here I am using its tale to wipe a happy tear). And in other ways, I am finding the snake as a symbol in my life.
I'm curious what 2013 will bring. To be honest, 2012 was a bit arduous and slow. Figuring out the work/family balance, waiting to see where Dav's work will take him, learning to juggle 2 kids, and just feeling more tired all made the year difficult. If 2011 was the arrival of Aila, and 2012 was settling into the rhythm of a family of 4, then hopefully 2013 will be about getting our groove back. We'll see. Patience...
In the meantime, I am smitten to bits with my family.
Happy Year of the Snake and I hope everyone is feeling better soon! Zoe was born in the last year of the snake so this is her anniversary(?) year. We don't see too many snakes around here though.
Posted by: mikepop | 12/31/2012 at 10:03 PM
You are fortunate to have such a handsome husband and two wonderful children. You are very wise to appreciate your family so clearly. Some of us tend to lose sight of the exceptional, while in the moment. You do not. That makes me feel happiness for you, instead of envy.
Best wishes for a prosperous, lucky year ahead, for you and your family!
Posted by: Harriet | 01/02/2013 at 09:18 AM
Happy New Year to you and the whole family! I hope that 2013 is a year of blessing and laughter.
Posted by: Ms. Jen | 01/02/2013 at 09:05 PM
I wish you all the best in 2013. Love, laughter, happiness and success in everything that you do. xo
Posted by: kimmi8 | 01/02/2013 at 11:07 PM
Thank you, everyone for your kind comments. Jan. 1 is just like any other day, but it is also a time for some reflection.
Harriet, I'll take your comments to heart. Sometimes I do lose perspective when rushing to get dinner on the table, exhausted from work, wondering how I can keep up. I'll think of your words that no matter how busy, it's my choice, and I am very lucky. Thank you. I wish you a fulfilling year.
Posted by: Kokochi | 01/05/2013 at 05:35 PM