My grandmother's memorial

It was beautiful and perfect for the family. I am so happy we went, and got to share this special moment together. It was a sad occasion, but really a celebration of her life. From everyone's stories at the memorial, we all marveled at how she lived larger than life, was glamorous, independent, continously working on artistic projects, and just amazing. She had a great life, and we were glad to be part of it.

We were also just happy to be together. My dad's side of the family is from the east coast (upstate NY), and most still live on the east coast, so for me to hang out with them is special. I feel a family bond, and cherish my relationship with them. 

Here are a few pics: my grandmother's family grave, the Miller family. She joins her siblings, uncles/aunts, and parents. And then Tesla playing with her little cousin Sammy. They hadn't met, but it just seemed like they knew they were related, immediately bonding.

 

On the steps of my grandmother's childhood house. It was huge and beautiful. I could totally imagine her there, and how she expected life to just continue to be as grand.

It's now owned by Jim Ivory of Merchant Ivory Productions, but we were able to get a tour. Tesla now can say that she pooped in Jim Ivory's house ; )

I learned that Franklin D. Roosevelt had a campaign party here when he ran for governor of New York, and when he was running late, my grandmother, still a child, sang for the attendees. She also apparently later sat on his lap!

 

 

 

 

 

Another view of the house. Since a group of us toured, while most were still inside, all the kids came out and ran around the large yard. I remember my early years in Connecticut, loving the long evenings where us kids could go outside after dinner, playing games in the yard. Made me really want a nice big yard for Tesla, and to be close to a bunch of cousins for constant family play...

 

As my uncle sifts through her stuff and our family history, we have discovered videos of when my dad was young (very cool to see my dad as a youngster running around), all her manuscripts and copious boxes of notes and memories. I found out that my great x? grandfather (makes me 8th generation or something) fought in the 1776 Revolution at the age of 15. Heh.

I love my family, both Japanese and American. Very glad to be in touch with both sides...

 

Comments

[Christina]

I'm sorry about your grandmother. It seems like it was a nice celebration.

[Jean Davis]

the beautiful picture of Tesla & Sammy reminds me of the classic "Babes in the Woods." you have such an amazing eye. welcome home to you all!

[E Jetmar]

Wow -- maybe you should try to buy that house back and live there happily! Seems like a phenomenal place to raise a family. How wonderful your grandma got to grow up there.