I've delightfully been slack about blogging as I had quite a bit of traveling, and was just enjoying life as is. But in the end, my posts are for me (and maybe Tesla) so let me backtrack a bit.
We were in Walla Walla to visit Deborah. Deborah and I met in Tokyo, when I was transferring from a Japanese elementary school to the American School in Japan. By then, although I was born and raised until 9 in the U.S., I was more Japanese at that point, so it was quite a culture-shock to go to A.S.I.J.. Deborah is a child of missionary parents who are not Japanese, but she grew up completely in Japan. Although American, she is Japanese in many ways. We became close because of that.
We've kept in touch, and now Deborah is a mama. On her own. A beautiful, gutsy move. I wanted to support her, so after her mom helped a month, and after she had a spring break (she is a professor and had no complete maternity leave other than reducing her load by 1 class), I came in to help. Actually, just for a week, and with Dav and Tesla. Realistically, with a toddler, how much did I help? I held down the house while she went to class, and we were hopefully an entertaining family, but toddler + baby is hard!
One afternoon she went to class, and I announced I'd take Akio and Tesla to the park. The park was a bit far so Tesla wanted the stroller. I had Akio in a baby carrier bjorn. But it was a bit too sunny so with one hand on the stroller (which really requires two hands to steer), and one trying to shield Akio with a cloth I had over his head, I barely got out of the driveway when Deborah drove up, done with her day. Of course, with Tesla all happy we were heading to the park, I had to hand off Akio to Deborah, and go play with Tesla. All to say, I wasn't exactly the best "help."
Hopefully, it was fun for all :) More importantly, I got Deborah time.
p.s. the picture is where T got her sakura flower in her hair.
p.p.s. some belated videos: Tesla cleaning up after playing at the Children's musem where they had a shopping area. And Tesla enjoying sidewalk chalk that daddy-o enhanced for her trains. More of that...so nice and different from S.F....
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